There are lots of things about being bisexual confuse people. They have their own ideas and thought where they created some other world. However, these days’ people are getting comfortable and also accepting the truth about sexual preferences. But still, there are lots of things you must understand especially if you are dating a bisexual partner.
Well, there are lots of platforms such as BiCupid where you can find bisexual people looking for their partners. But what you should do if you are already in a relationship and your partner suddenly come up with the truth about their sexuality. Well here are a few things that you should never do at least:
It’s a phase and it will be going to over soon
If your partner is sure about their preference then this is not any kind of phase. Most of the people don’t get it as they believe their partner is going through some kind of situation. Well, the first thing you must do is to understand the reality and plan what you need to do about it.
Joking about their opinion
The worst you could do is to make fun of their reality. It’s not just mean but also insulating at the same time. Bisexual people are already suffering from lots of judgments no matter it’s from other people or from their own family, its mot wise thing to do either.
Having your own thoughts
To maintain a healthy relationship, it’s important to get over with your own thoughts. Also if you have any doubts then you must directly talk to your partner. However the topic is sensitive, so make sure your approach doesn’t make your partner feel insulting or bad. Talk with an open mind and be honest about the feelings too.
Ignoring the truth
Its most baseless thing that you can do is to ignore the truth and turn your back from the reality. Its obvious that things will not be going to change no matter how much you want to deny it. Better is to accept the truth and be ready for future things too.
Not ready for the conversation or communication
The whole thing can be shocking for you but again everything can be solved with a healthy and meaningful chat. Also when you decide to talk about the topic to your partner then make sure you don’t bring few questions. It includes the numbers of girls or boys they slept or what they feel about bisexual and heterosexual genders. Not just that, don’t even mention the past experience. These are something where your partner should feel comfortable to share things with you.
Having insecurities and doubts
If you feel that your partner will jump to any guy or girl just because of his or her gender preferences then you must stop there. Your bisexual partner is absolutely normal just like other people and loyalty is the same too. They don’t jump on anyone or cheat, so you do not feel insecure about it too.